7/29/12

Maine

Sand Beach, Acadia Park
I spent the last week in Lincolnville, Maine with Brenna and Erin, friends (and old roommates, as you may recall) who I don't see nearly enough. I had a great week; my stomach still aches from laughter, feeling tight from the thousand crunches I definitely did not do.


Erin and Brenna, pre-puke
I ate lobster for most of my meals and supplemented my candy addiction with ice cream every night. I sailed through the Penobscet Bay and made fun of Erin for being seasick until she puked and I laughed so hard I almost did too. (If you've never seen red wine come up on a sailboat, you haven't really lived. Also, never get sick in front of me, as I will laugh and fail to offer any aid.)

I pretended to be Cali Kelly and hiked to the top of Bald Rock Mountain, where the Atlantic lays before you in panoramic views. Views that make you stop and say "Oh, shit."

I jumped into the 50 degree ocean at Sand Beach in Acadia National Park. I used my body as it was meant to be used; hiking, running, jumping and swimming. I felt relaxed and down to earth. We existed in a true vacation mode; our alarms were set, but only for more vacation time.

Bald Rock Mountain, Maine
But still, the pain I feel from this latest lupus flare stuck with me. And because it existed, I had to share these moments with the holes in my mouth, with the sharp pain shooting through my gums. At times, the vacation euphoria I felt was deafened by the pain. The pain was apparent every time I laughed too hard, opened my mouth too wide, or ate. It was there in every bite of lobster I took. 

And it pisses me off.

I hate my body for doing this. For fucking up any plans I had to be happy and carefree and young.

I hate that I have tried, many times, to get over the fact that my body is trying to kill itself from the inside-out. I even hate that that's the definition I have to give to people who wonder what lupus is. "Oh, lupus? It's just my body trying to commit suicide! Ha ha! Insert funny joke here!"

I hate that there is no way to live both ways; there is no way to feel the pain and not feel it too.

I hate that every flare reminds me that I must keep faith in myself, that I must believe in something that will end my pain quickly. I hate that I have found that the Something I believe in is only myself, and my ability to do what I have done a thousand times before.

My trip was wonderful and beautiful and those are the memories I will have. I am lucky to have them. To have the chance to laugh with my friends and see the beauty this world has to offer.


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On our last day in Maine, we stopped in Portland before heading down the coast.

We joked about getting a tattoo all week. We went through several bad ideas, including my idea of a lobster tattoo to commemorate all the fallen lobsters I ate this week.

Eventually we decided on this. We saw so much beauty this week. We trudged through miles of evergreen trees to see the ocean, bluer than I thought possible.

I also like the strength and endurance of the evergreen. It’s a reminder that I can bear this pain and more.

A reminder that this week, I did just that.

6 comments:

  1. love that tattoo! i just spent some time in maine also.. stayed in bar harbor, checked out acadia. you should check it out on my blog! we didn't make it to sand beach this time but damn how cold does that water get.. right!

    http://ourbklyn.com/?s=maine

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  2. Beautiful. Just keep going and living!

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  3. Love the tattoo!

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  4. I love the image of the evergreen. Glad you are having a fun summer with your friends. And, just saying, those abs look pretty freaking good.

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  5. I love the image of the evergreen. Glad you are having a fun summer with your friends. And, just saying, those abs look pretty freaking good.

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